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Martha Ann Kennedy's avatar

I absolutely love this. This has been my life and discovery since I cracked my femur. All the bullshit surrounding me, the noise, the complex and impossible situations I cannot change, the future I cannot know but can dread, all of it dissolved in the kindness offered me by more strangers than I can count -- but I can remember that. There is an aspect to love that is anonymous -- it's not compassion or charity -- it's something else, maybe something more and sometimes very fleeting but never unreal.

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Rajani Radhakrishnan's avatar

Thank you, Martha. In a world where everything seems so strident, so shrill, so in-your-face, that kind of gentleness/kindness/love/giving stands out and consoles us. I look for gentle consolation and just find more words. Or at least that's where this poem came from. :)

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Martha Ann Kennedy's avatar

I get that. That's why it all moved me so deeply when it was concrete and palpable. I got the distinct sense that everyone feels helpless and when something they CAN do something about comes along? A small, simple example? My post office that went out of its way to be sure I could get my mail and even more -- "How are you doing?" at least once a week. I can't end wars. I can't change governments. I can be the pebble sending ripples out into the pool.

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Rajani Radhakrishnan's avatar

Action is wonderful, unexpected and changes everything. But even just gentle acknowledgment - let people know they are seen - changes lives. It does seem like only empathy and kindness can get us through this unbearable reality. Kudos to your post office - that is literally going over and beyond!

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School of Blue's avatar

This is the kind of writing that will sit with me for a long time, Rajani.

I was fascinated with how you worked with the fog - suggestion, possiibity and memory. Then the shroud? Devastating.

The animal released into the world, turning back, haunts. Yet, in the end thank goodness we are saved by gentleness / the beautiful stuff like 'sleep fills the empty hands of waiting'. There is such a fierce hope in the end. Thank you as ever.

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Rajani Radhakrishnan's avatar

Thank you, Richard. Appreciate the kind comment. Those of us who are unable to cope with the reality of the headlines, the devastating visuals everyday...we have to hold on to hope...hope for kindness and gentleness and empathy...do we even have a choice? I hope that will come...soon. It must.

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School of Blue's avatar

I know. I am distraught - that's why your poetry brings life. Thank you.

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Rajani Radhakrishnan's avatar

@rena Thanks so much for the restack, Rena. :)

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jared mulhair's avatar

all things dissolve in kindness — what a poem to kick off the month! gorgeous rumination, Rajani!

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Rajani Radhakrishnan's avatar

Thanks so much, Jared. So glad you liked this one!

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Angela van Son Poetry's avatar

Oh blimey, you're saying it's April already!

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Rajani Radhakrishnan's avatar

:) Feels that way, doesn't it!!!!

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Sanjay Suri's avatar

Loved this poem Rajani😊

Oozing with gentleness yet unafraid to name the unspoken

About balance, about hope

And clever use of metaphor 🙏

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Rajani Radhakrishnan's avatar

Thanks so much, Sanjay. Glad you liked it!

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Angela van Son Poetry's avatar

In awe of this one. Makes me think that if I join NaPoWriMo I should write before I read. After reading something great I don't feel like writing.

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Rajani Radhakrishnan's avatar

Thanks so much, Angela. I do that too...post my poem first before getting on with the reading... :) I'm only targetting 10 poems, not doing the poem-a-day thing...hope to read plenty of poetry though!

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Caroline's avatar

I feel the same way

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Depth Charge: Weekly Poetry's avatar

Just beautiful. Thank you for this.

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Caroline's avatar

Wow, thank you for sharing. This is the kind of poem that reminds me why I love poetry so much.

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Rajani Radhakrishnan's avatar

Thanks so much for reading, Caroline. Glad you liked it. And I appreciate the restack too.

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Sonia Dogra's avatar

If it weren't for the cherry blossoms, for the spurts of kindness and gentleness, we would perhaps have drowned in the grief that builds this world. While we cannot look away, a sliver of kindness is all it takes. Thanks for your beautiful poetry, Rajani. I always look forward to reading you.

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Rajani Radhakrishnan's avatar

Thank you so much, Sonia. Appreciate the kind words. And yet, we need all the kindness we can get to get through this world. And all the poetry!

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Jennifer Wagner's avatar

Gorgeous, evocative poetry, Rajani~

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Rajani Radhakrishnan's avatar

Thanks for reading, Jennifer. Lovely to see you on Substack. Just subscribed to your stack. Glad you liked this one!

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Jennifer Wagner's avatar

Thank you so much, friend! It’s a pleasure to read you here as well~

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Sherry Marr's avatar

I love this beautiful poem, especially the wild one, turning back as if with a message. And that promises should be trees, not clouds. Your writing carries such powerful messages, Rajani. Beautifully expressed.

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Rajani Radhakrishnan's avatar

Thanks so much, Sherry. Glad to be able to link my substack to the open link.

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Sumana Roy's avatar

This poem is a reward for reading poetry. All adjectives I know, will be understatements.

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Rajani Radhakrishnan's avatar

Thank you, Sumana. That is so very kind. Glad you came to read on my Substack.

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Mary Kling's avatar

Beautiful poem. I really like the idea that “All things dissolve in kindness.” Important to realize right now.

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Rajani Radhakrishnan's avatar

Thank you, Mary. And I agree, at a time like this, we need all the kindness we can muster to create a softer world.

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Marja's avatar

Wow stunningly beautiful Your poem is like a divine meal and these beautiful words and lines like tender, succulent bites.

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Rajani Radhakrishnan's avatar

Thanks so much, Marja. So glad you signed up to read on Substack. Much appreciated.

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Dora.h's avatar

Absolutely stunning, Rajani. Without gentleness and kindness, how would we get through the pain?

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Rajani Radhakrishnan's avatar

Thank you, Dora. Glad you liked this poem. And yes we need much kindness and gentleness, especially now!

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Nazish Nasim's avatar

Loved every bit of this poem, Rajani. Like birds scatter ...beautiful.

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Rajani Radhakrishnan's avatar

Thanks so much, Nazish. I've been distracted all week, not looking closely at Substack. Are you doing Poetry month? Must read your poems.

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Nazish Nasim's avatar

Same here. It was Eid here. Poetry month? I don't know anything about that. Enlighten me, please.

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Rajani Radhakrishnan's avatar

A belated Eid Mubarak! April is Poetry month- some people write a poem-a-day. I did it a few times but not this year..too much going on!

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Nazish Nasim's avatar

Thank you :). I already write a poem a day - atleast I try to. In my Notes. :) Work keeping you busy?

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Susan's avatar

"How the empty quarter of the page cradles your eyes at the end of a sorrowful poem."

There is so much in this poem that it overwhelms me, but this line is the first place I felt the gentleness both in sun and in fog, in all it's taxonomies. My favorite part is the last stanza where "all things dissolve in kindness." May tomorrow come.

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Rajani Radhakrishnan's avatar

Thank you, Susan. Am so glad you picked that line..it meant a lot to me!! May tomorrow come...and come gently!

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